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SWS Fashion Friday - Poketo For Wedding Season

Friday, September 3rd, 2010

This Tuesday, September 7 the very cool design collective, Poketo, will launch its first-ever fall collection for Target. What to expect? A variety of eye-catching totes, wallets, reusable bags and camera cases amidst even more limited-edition, art-inspired lifestyle wares that absolutely have a place(card) in wedding season. 

Known worldwide for their commitment to art for the everyday, the LA-based husband and wife founders of Poketo,Ted Vadakan and Anie Myung, have been commissioned to create art products for museums like the San Francisco Museum of Modern Art, organizations like Coachella Valley Music Festival, and bands like The Arcade Fire (sidenote: they have an amazing new album out now) and The Shins. And now with this new marriage between Poketo and Target expect not just art for everyday, but art for everyone as the line will be accessible nationwide at highly affordable prices.

So in celebration of art for everyone, everyday why not include art in your wedding season? Poketo for Target offers an array of fabulous designs (check out my favorites below) perfect for bridesmaid thank you gifts, bridal shower gifts and storage for your wedding day emergency kit.   Poketo collaborates with over 200 international artists to design their products (visit www.poketo.com for a complete view of their extensive catalog) and will also be introducing a line for Macy’s this winter.

Poketo Bears Tote in a Tote Bag - Green ($12.99(

Poketo Bears Tote Bag with Coin Purse - Green ($12.99) Brides, Why Not Make This Part Of Your Bridesmaid Thank You Gift & Fill It With Fun Thank You Treats!

Poketo Bow Checkbook Wallet - Black ($12.99)

Poketo Bow Checkbook Wallet - Black ($12.99) A Fab Bridal Shower Gift!

Poketo Swirls Large Pocket Weekender Tote ($29.99)

Poketo Swirls Large Pocket Weekender Tote ($29.99) Making Your Own Bridal Emergency Kit? Why Not Store It In This Tote?

Poketo Gems 3-in-1 Pouches ($14.99)

Poketo Gems 3-in-1 Pouches ($14.99) Perfect Pouches For Your Wedding Day Emergency Kit.


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Open Letter To Brides: Bridesmaids Deserve Plus Ones

Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

Dearest Brides,

Congratulations on your wonderful news! Only the best of wishes to you and your fiancé on your upcoming wedding and marriage. Hopefully the wedding planning has not been too stressful and that all your dreams are coming true. This should be a magically happy time in your life.

Today’s open letter is on behalf of bridesmaids everywhere advocating that every woman in your bridal party - whether in a relationship or not - be invited to your wedding with the opportunity to bring a date. Why? Because your bridal party would go to the moon for you so at the very least don’t they deserve good slow dance partners at your reception? And while majority of single bridesmaids might not even opt to bring a date, they still deeply desire the considerate option. 

As someone who publicly writes about the wedding guest experience many a bridesmaid has shared with me her wedding ups and downs. The biggest wedding season complaint across the board is when a single (or newly dating) member of the bridal party is not invited to her friend’s wedding with a plus one. This date issue far surpasses anything travel, fashion or expense related.

Bridesmaids are generally beyond excited to be a part of your big day, but they can feel incredibly conflicted about the fact that you have not invited them to attend your wedding with a date. They will also likely not say anything about their discomfort so as not to cause you stress. This is why I write this open letter.

Brides, your friends love you so much they will wear dresses they dislike (and spend $350 for them). They will spend $300 to throw you an engagement party. Your friends will do anything for you, so the seemingly little thing you don’t do for them can be incredibly hurtful - especially if your wedding is full of couples and very few other single people.  

Everyone understands that finances are tight and adding a plus one to your rehearsal dinner and reception could add an estimated $150 to your overall expenses. But please think about all the expenses incurred by your bridesmaids to participate in your big day. On average a bridesmaid can spend over $1,200 per wedding including a dress, shoes, the bridal shower, engagement party, bachelorette party (and all the gifts and travel associated with each event), a hotel room, maybe a plane ticket and lastly a wedding gift when all is said and done.

I understand that you can’t invite everyone and that some couples want to keep their wedding small and full of familiar people. But please, I urge you, remember how much time, energy and money your best gals are spending to stand up and support your union. If you really want to say thank you to the important women in your life, please make room on your seating chart for each one to bring a date.

And don’t ever be like the bride who tried to take away her friend’s plus one after said friend’s engagement was called off! Someone else’s personal tragedy is not an opportunity for you to yank back a seat for someone else. Unfortunately this really did happen to someone until another, vocal bridesmaid stepped in and pointed out the poor judgement associated with this bad call.


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Fall N2 Fashion This Saturday, August 21 (Los Angeles)

Thursday, August 19th, 2010

As a member of Two Point Oh! LA - an LA-based fashion blogger network - I frequently learn about fun and interesting local fashion events. This Saturday, August 21 there is such an event happening called Fall N2 Fashion Pop Up Trunk Show & Beauty Bar. This seasonal pop-up shop is hosted by tha Hotness Blog and will take place at Royal / T Café & Artspace in Culver City from 12-5. Admission is free unless you go for the $25 VIP upgrade, and I highly encourage you to click this link to see the Royal / T Café storefront. Everything looks so stunning I only wish I could attend.

 

 

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SWS Fashion Friday - Eat, Pray, Love these Silk Scarves

Friday, August 6th, 2010

Last summer I was a bridesmaid in my friend Erin’s multi-cultural, multi-religious, Hindu/Lutheran wedding. SWS Survival Expert Vicky Choy was the Wedding Planner. This was the first time I was told by a bride that I could wear whatever I wanted, as long as it was black. I bought a Vivienne Tam dress on final sale at Gilt Groupe for under $100 (but spent over $100 on alterations) and chose to re-wear the Ann Taylor Criss Cross Metallic Sandals I wore as part of an earlier summer wedding outside of Philadelphia. Actually, I continue to wear these heels to weddings because they are comfortable and go with everything.

Dressed in black - flattering on the eight of us - we did however have an accessory to wear as part of the ceremony; a beautiful silk scarf purchased by the bride while in India. This gorgeous scarf was part of our bridesmaid thank you gift. Half were fuschia with bright tangerine orange accents, the others were seafoam green with hints of yellow and blue. All photographed beautifully. In addition to the scarves we also each received a custom-made, unique Fiaz clutch from Etsy. 

Post-Ceremony, the new bride with her bridesmaids all dressed in black with Indian silk scarves.

Post-Ceremony, the new bride with her bridesmaids all dressed in black with Indian silk scarves.

For female wedding guests as a rule I would say scarves are a must. Whether you just hold it for later when the air gets colder, or you find yourself in a more conservative ceremony than your strapless dress expected, it is a small, collapsible, light accessory that can keep you cool. But I also think a scarf makes for a beautiful wedding party bridal accessory that can create some subtle individuality amongst a group of identically dressed women. I actually received two scarves last year as part of two different bridesmaid thank you gifts and frequently use both. So with love for the scarf I want to let you know about an event taking place tomorrow, August 7 on HSN - the exclusive launch of an incredible collection of silk scarves by the world-renowned artist Romio Shrestha.

Enlightened Female Energy scarf by Romio Shrestha

Romio Shrestha’s art can be found in the world’s greatest museums, including the British Museum and the American Museum of Natural History and retails between $10,000 and $150,000. His HSN collection of scarves, however, represents the first time his distinguished work has been made available, affordable, and wearable to the fashion-loving public. This limited edition collection of scarves featuring his paintings will be available on HSN as part of a three-day event honoring the memoir that helped to inspire the collection: Eat, Pray, Love (in theaters August 13). 

The Vision of Selflessness scarf by Romio Shrestha

The Vision of Selflessness scarf by Romio Shrestha

I once had the incredible pleasure of meeting Romio Shrestha at the Tibet House in New York while in attendance of his art exhibition opening. He impressive and compassionate and his large format art is monumental and created thru patience. In stature he is small, but his heart, warmth and energy can fill the largest of spaces as reflected in his art.

When we met, the artist placed small pearls in my palm as he took my hand. His kindness and love of others should be a model for all.  I feel beyond fortunate to have had this opportunity to meet Romio Shrestha.

The Wheel of Bliss scarf by Romio Shrestha

The scarf collection features four different prints depicting Buddhist icons. Each one is imbued with a separate meaning based on ancient Buddhist principles and modern values and can be worn, framed, gifted, or collected. The scarves retail between $79.95- $99.95 and will debut on tomorrow at 7 AM EST and 6 PM EST. They will also be available online at www.HSN.com.
Boundless Healing scarf by Romio Shrestha

Boundless Healing scarf by Romio Shrestha

About the Collection:

Each scarf print is bordered by a different color and illustrates a specific Buddhist theme and energy.

  • The red-bordered scarf represents The Wheel of Bliss, or the happiness and creation derived from the union of man and woman. The principle of unconditional love, as represented on the scarf, is a manifestation of the body and spirit of Buddha.
  • The black-bordered scarf represents Enlightened Female Energy. This scarf demonstrates the female form of Buddha, Vajrayogini, who achieves great results from every action and speaks to the empowerment of women.
  • The blue-bordered scarf addresses The Buddha of Boundless Life, and ensures protection of the spirit.
  • The pink-bordered scarf praises The Vision of Selflessness, and, through its Buddhist imagery, serves as a reminder that we are each the creator of our own reality.

Together, the scarves combine Buddhist ideas with a modern message, creating pieces that are both beautiful and substantive in their story.

About Romio Shrestha:

Romio was born in Katmandu, Nepal. At age five, he was told by Tibetan monks that he was the 17th reincarnation of master Tibetan T’angka painter Arniko, destined to form his own school of painting. Now, recognized internationally for his modern translations of ancient technique, Shrestha works on innovating the art of T’angka, ushering the practices into the 21st century. Currently, he directs a school of craftsmen in the Katmandu valley of Nepal. Romio has many celebrity fans including: Uma Thurman, Jonathan Rhys Meyer, Deepak Chopra, Diane Von Furstenberg, Kyle McLachlan, Steven Segal, Charlize Theron, Donna Karan, George Harrison.

About Erin’s Wedding:

For multi-cultural wedding inspiration a site called Wedding Nouveau did a feature on Erin’s beautiful wedding. Click here for more.

 


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SWS Fashion Friday - Red, White and OOOOOO

Friday, July 2nd, 2010
TOM Red Stripe Calypso Canvas Womens Wedges ($69)
TOM Red Stripe Calypso Canvas Women’s Wedges ($69)

Happy almost 4th of July! In honor of the holiday I’m celebrating Fashion Friday with a little red, white and blue in the form of a shoe. Will you join me?

Have you seen the new TOM women’s wedges? My good friend just bought them in blue and they are adorable, comfortable and reasonably priced. In my opinion the also possess a certain fashionable wedding season utility because with a wedge you will never have reception heel issues.

Be the reception on the beach, at a rocky vineyard or an estate with soft grass, with a wedge you will have zero opportunities to ruin your heels. And while nothing about this shoe screams black-tie, it is a great summer look. Also, they will probably be super comfortable for when you start to boogie (see my top ten wedding reception songs here).

Plus, in case you are not familiar with the TOMS one for one philosophy, for every purchase made TOMS donates one pair of shoes to a child in need. Again, I am a huge supporter of adding social responsibility to your wedding season and what a fashionable way to give back. TOMS also has a wedding collection of flats for the bride, groom and wedding party. Not a bad gift idea for a bridesmaid thank you; especially as it also helps children. Or as a wedding guest, if you are traveling a lot this wedding season, TOMS flats are perfect for packing as they take up very little space and exude comfort.

Have a happy and safe holiday weekend, Elle

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